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By Julie, New Jersey
I have been on AFF for for a couple of months now and have met 4 guys already. The opportunity to meet guys is incredible on this site for women. I am not e-mailing them, they are all e-mailing me and I have become overwhelmed by the amount of e-mails I am receiving. Out of the four men I slept with three of them right away. On the fourth date I decided that I was going to meet the person for lunch first. This guy was enough of a gentlemen to agree to this. Although I found him very nice and funny I was not attracted to him sexually. He did try to seduce me and get me back to my apartment but I declined. At the end of the date he told me how wonderful I was and asked me for a kiss. I gave him a kiss and found out he was a really good kisser. He mentioned going out again and told me to call him later if I changed my mind about him comming over. I sent him an e-mail thanking him for dinner and saying what a good kisser he was. I wasnt even interested in him but was trying to be nice. Mind you this was a guy that I rejected 4 times before I said yes. Why would a guy say all that wonderful stuff about me and then not return my e-mails or call me.
Of the four dates I was only attracted to one guy who was the most incredible sexual experience I ever had. That guy never returned my calls or e-mails. I know that I am preety and cool. Ive been told I have a great personality and I am excellent in bed. Needless to say don't get involved with AFF unless you have really thick skin. I can't seem to get past a one night stand on this site. I'm not looking for a LTR. Im just looking for hot sex, but it would be nice to find one sex buddy instead of sleeping around with tons of guys. After leaving the first guy I told him that I was never going to see him again because I know how guys work and he said your not going to get rid of me that easily. Now why would he say that and then just ignore me. He has contacted me twice since then to get together and I have returned his calls but he does not return mine.
The other two dates were with much younger men and they were a disaster. Way too immature. The 24 year old guy I was with was very scary. He was too rough and not very nice. He seemed so sweet and innocent on the phone and was very nice. Lets just say I have learned my lesson. I will not be letting strange guys into my home until I meet them first. When I joined the site I had just gotten out of a year and a half relationship where the sex was bad. I was feeling daring and was extremely sexually deprived. Although I love sex and could have sex all day and night I am not willing to keep having one night stands and being treated like crap by guys. Not to mention getting some horrible disease from them.
Some guys harass me over and over again with there phone numbers when I am not interested in them. I will just have to block them.
They get really annoyed if you dont return there e-mails because youve bruised there ego. What about when they use you for one night and disapear. They dont seem to care about that. Although it is flattering to have all these guys interested in me on the site it is getting old. I know most of them are not interested in me as a person but just as someone to fuck and stick there dick in my pussy. I understood that when I joined the site but that doesnt mean I dont want to get past the first date. Now I am scared to go on any more dates because I dont want to be rejected. This site is purely for sex . If your expecting friendships out of it or someone who really wants to know you as a person then go elsewhere. I suppose you could get more out of it but you just have to have thick skin and weed out those guys sending you the shots of there dicks and the ones that are not willing to at least take you out somewhere first.
At first I was so horny and lonely I didnt care. In the end you are just left feeling empty by a bad experience. It is short time happiness which can lead to psychological scars. Unfortunately I happen to be an extremely sensitive person.
I will stay on AFF but will weed out alot of guys and am not willing to just hook up with anyone. I have found a few decent ones that are interested in me. I have been spending way too much time on the internet trying to answer e-mails and deal with all these men.
I am interested in other womens experiences and if they have a bunch of one night stands as well.
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By Vanity7Sinsss, Santa Barbara, CA
I have been using AFF for 8 years... I don't even bother with bars anymore, unless I want to play pool. I've been both a standard member and a silver member. I have never once had a problem with customer service... and the best part is - you can talk to a live person 24 hours a day. I've forgotten to turn off automatic billing multiple times and I've never had a problem getting a refund.
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By Ralitge, Prague
AFF is for real, full of yanks and full of women from the other side of the world trying to find a dumb ass to send them money or more. But there are real members. I can honestly say I had more then one encounter with a person I met on aff and even a short relationship with one of them. I have really enjoyed the fact that there are members that do meet with others and do more then just talk.
But if you like me are from an area where most people don't speak english your chances are very limited and the number of available members that is not just looking for customers is very small. So you might want to consider other (local) sites instead of AFF.
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By Bruce, Washington DC
While some sites tell you that you will meet guys / girls /couples or whomever you are looking to meet . It is just talk and you pouring you money into thier service . And when they say you will meet they really mean only meet online . And if that is what you are looking for you can just go to chatrooms and play dr love .BUT if you are looking to meet other people that live and breathe then aff is the bomb . I only been on this site for 4 yrs . But i have met up with about 12 young lady s to spend some nice time with . No i have not met my next exwife there but oops im not looking for that . good luck spending your money on other sites .
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By Freddy from New York
I like that competition among men when new pretty girl joins. All of us try to be the first for her, write e-mails, send pictures or something like that. And itís so beautiful feeling when she chooses you! Amazing!
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By Jenny from New York
I hate when men upload those photos of their penises. When I joined I saw one man who didnít do it. He just showed other his smiling face and it was so charming. We met and had great sex. Now we are married
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By Tony from Chicago, Ill.
AFF is really the hottest dating site. There are no limits when you are there. Young pretty girls with no strings attached make me crazy.
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By Grace L from LA
Wow! Itís the very site Iíve been looking for. I know what Iíll do when have a free time. Thanks!
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