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What kind of people are swingers?
All kinds of people. Swingers come from all walks of life, all races, all incomes. One common bond is that they are interested in exploring sexual fantasies, they are honest with themselves and others, and they tend to communicate better with their partners than the average couple. The Swinging Life style has been in existence since time began. Because on it's most basic level, the word "swinging" is only a board term meaning; the sharing of sexual pleasure with a person or persons we are not legally married to!!! In this context; most of the people in the world today, ARE swinging, whether they realize it or not!!!
The roots of swinging go back to Air Force pilots in World War II. They had the financial means to keep their wives close to base, and due to their fatality rate being the highest of any service branch, non-monogamous relationships between these wives and pilots became acceptable. Swinging persisted near Air Force bases throughout World War II and the Korean War. In 1957, as swinging spread to the suburbs, the media caught wind of these arrangements and dubbed the revolution "wife-swapping." During this time, "Key Clubs" were a means of "hooking up" with other swingers. Husbands would drop their car keys into a bowl or into a pile, and the wives would draw a set at random. The owner of the selected keys was your sexual partner for the evening. It wasn't until the 1960's that the first organization "Sexual Freedom League" opened in Berkely, CA. Ultimately, an umbrella organization called the North American Swing Club Association (now NASCA International) was formed to facilitate accurate information about the swinging lifestyle all across America. Today's swingers enjoy the luxury of meeting new playmates in a wide variety of methods. Swing clubs, lifestyle groups, swinger dating websites, private adult parties and hotel takeover parties are just a few of the avenues couples in the lifestyle are able to meet and enjoy other swingers in their area and across the world.
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How do I convince my partner to swing?
This is probably one of the most common questions we see on the message board. Swinging is not for everyone, and it might not be for you and your partner. Before you think about trying to convince your partner to swing you should first look at yourself and examine the reasons you wish to swing. Are you wanting to swing so that you can "get more action", if so, then don't bother. This is not the lifestyle for you. If, however, you want to swing because you want to help your partner live out fantasies while living out your own, or because you want to share the most special part of your life (your partner) with others, then you can start looking at how to talk to your partner about swinging. You may not even need to convince your partner. They may already be more than willing, all you have to do is let them know that you are. On the other hand, they may not have ever thought about it. Communication is the key to opening all of the doors here. The first thing you need to do is talk to them about your fantasies, perhaps leave a swinger mag lying around for them to find to stimulate a conversation, or have them look through Find-a-Swinger.com with you. Be open to any questions that they may bring up and be prepared to answer why you want to do this. If your partner lets you know that they have no interest in the lifestyle, then back off. Pushing them will get you nowhere. However, you can mention your fantasies to them, if you can get your partner turned on to your fantasies then you will have a much better chance of opening the lines of communication again and the chances of taking things further will increase.
How do we meet others who are interested in the lifestyle?
If you want to meet people from all over the world to visit and visit you, that is possible!!! There are several ways to find others interested in swinging. The two most prolific ways are through personal ads and swinger clubs. On our Adult Sex Links page you will find several great sites for swingers personal ads. All of which will allow you to post your own ad for free as well as allow for limited free browsing and answering of others ads. You can also check out on geotargeret map our members listings for info near you to visit and meet other like-minded couples and individuals.
Your first step in finding swingers in your area is to create a personal ad. The Find-a-Swinger.com offers this service and provides members with the ability to search other swinger ads, filter your preferences and interact via a live video chat room. Many times members will post private parties or events in the forum for any local swingers to attend. Private parties and club events is an excellent way to meet many other swingers in a short period of time, and in a relaxed no-pressure environment. Happy Swinging!
